Trans Awareness – Promoting Proactive Inclusion
Gender Equality goes beyond acceptance. However, a proactive approach, including Trans Awareness, is a powerful demonstration of commitment to fostering a diverse and inclusive workplace.
Men Need Help Removing Their Armour
Patriarchy hurts men. It is a system that drastically needs to be challenged and dismantled for everyone’s benefit. Who wouldn’t want to be a man in a patriarchal system?
5 Hacks For Making Memories this School Holidays
More and more dads are taking responsibility for the school holidays so I'm sharing a few hacks that I use at my place to enable us to make memories rather than just try to survive.
Pay Transparency
Pay Transparency to reduce disparity. For a lot of organisations, this is the time of the year performance for the previous year […]
Women in Leadership Programs…
The latest version of unpaid work? In most of the leadership programs I have run, unfortunately, many participants who attend often feel […]
“We don’t talk about Bruno.”
Let’s rethink NDAs. Non-Disclosure Agreements (NDAs) have long been utilised as a legal tool to protect sensitive information, trade secrets, and proprietary […]
International Women’s Day Join the discussion
Men, we need to be active and involved. March 8th is International Women’s Day, in case you hadn’t noticed. There is a […]
Late to the Party
I have a friend who is notorious for arriving late to gatherings. Frequently 2-3 hours late. And if there’s acknowledgement and an […]
Are you being equal with the Me Time?
Or is ‘ME’ time really short for ‘MEN’ time? We have all heard the idioms: – Fix your oxygen mask first, before […]
Stop Focusing on Fixing Women
When considering your organisation’s 2023 plans, perhaps ANOTHER Women in Leadership program is not the answer. The solution to gender diversity problems […]
How to NOT to Mansplain – In 3 Easy Lessons
Lesson 1 – You Don’t know as much as you think you do There is a tendency that the less we know […]
Are you watering down your DEI Initatives?
𝗔𝗿𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘄𝗮𝘁𝗲𝗿𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗱𝗼𝘄𝗻 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗗𝗘𝗜 𝗶𝗻𝗶𝘁𝗶𝗮𝘁𝗶𝘃𝗲𝘀? There is a difference between compliance training and real development. I don’t work in compliance […]
Transgender Awareness Week 2022
Just a reminder that Transgender Awareness Week should be about giving visibility to the challenges faced by this community – issues of […]
My Hands Are Full
For the last 18 months, I’ve been, and still am, the primary carer for my daughter on at least two days of […]
Do You Wipe The Seat?
Speaking on behalf of most men, accidently peeing on a toilet seat happens often. When this happens, you are faced with a […]
Episode 7 – A 26-year-old expiry date
In this episode we chat with two singer-song-writers, Keppie Coutts and Ben Romalis about gender issues within the music industry, and the impact the music industry has on gender perspectives. We share insights into some of the everyday microaggressions, and the gendered, racial and age-related obstacles encountered by artists. We discuss how ‘networks’, and the lack of representation particularly in positions of power and influence in the industry work to exclude anybody who isn’t a white man. We discuss gendered stigmas attached to instruments and different genres, before finally taking a deeper look at song lyrics - from Blurred Lines, to grapevines, and the zig a zig ahs.
Episode 6 – Look For It
In this episode, we chat with Dominque Powrie, Managing Director of DDI, about gender equality and leadership. We chat about what makes for great leaders, and how we should be identifying talent, whilst exploring why the best leaders may not necessarily be the ones who end up in leadership roles. We discuss why we still have a way to go to ensure equality in representation of all genders at senior leadership, and how the inherent biases still permeate our processes. Finally, we share practical ways that executives can be allies, mentors, and sponsors, and the significant impact that we can all have to ensure fairer outcomes.
Episode 5 – An issue for the comfortable as well as the precarious
In this episode we chat with Dr Stephen Weller, Chief Operating Officer at Australian Catholic University, to discuss gender inequality within the tertiary education sector. We explore the importance of diverse representation in decision making, governance and policy making, and how change is taking longer than it should be. We examine some of the underlying issues associated with casualisation, flexibility and academic promotions, and how these are providing significant barriers to achieving gender equality.
Episode 4 – Yes, But
In this episode we chat with the founder of Accidental Counsellor, Cutty Felton, about mental health, suicide prevention and how to give support to those around us. We discuss how certain pressures associated with gender can impact our mental health, how trendy 'resilience' training may not actually be the best approach, as well as some straightforward and effective tips for helping other people through difficult times and personal crises.
Episode 3 – The Gap
In this episode we chat with Principal Recruitment Consultant, Kayla Hoye about gender equality within recruitment and selection practices. We look at the unconscious discounting that frequently occurs and disadvantages female candidates. We discuss the effectiveness of blind resumes, the gender language of advertisements, the composition of selection panels, and approaches to reference checking, in order to provide practical strategies for hiring managers to take greater ownership over the inclusivity of the process. You don’t need to wait for People and Culture before you can start fixing the problem.
Episode 2 – Let the sunlight in
In this episode we chat with Golnar Adl, Performance and Reward Manager about key gender equality measures, and pay and performance outcomes. Golnar helps us to understand the gender pay gap and the historical reasons for this inequality. We discuss the flaws within performance and remuneration reviews that contribute to greater gender inequality. And what leaders and organisations could be doing to firstly not make the problem worse, and then secondly provide greater transparency and accountability.
Episode 1 – The power to influence outcomes for other people
In our inaugural episode, we begin our journey in understanding male privilege by chatting with diversity and research consultant, Dr Linda Peach. We explore the essence of male privilege and appreciate how this privilege can be further compounded by being white, rich, able-bodied and heterosexual. We compare buying cars, buying drinks, and buying twitter, before honing in on what organisations and men need to be doing better in order to address the issue of gender inequality. Spoiler alert: the answer is not more unconscious bias training.
“H-e-y-G-u-y-s” “Hey Everyone!”
I’ve been working on changing my go-to of referring to a group of people as “guys”. It has NOT been easy. There […]
Gender Equity vs Gender Equality
I was having a discussion earlier this week with a man working in D&I, and he picked up on my language around […]
I want to put myself out of a job
My mission for Bloke Coaching is that it won’t be needed in 15 years. That will coincide with my 50th birthday. Call […]
Intention Bias vs Judging Behaviour
There is a hypocrisy most of us struggle with. Intentions and behaviour are legitimate ways to evaluate human conduct. The problem is […]
Would you buy your son a pram?
When my son turned 4, we bought him a pram. It was one of three things that he really wanted, and he […]
How much did my gender or my other characteristics, give me an edge?
“People who think that have claimed the greasy pole on their own misunderstand how much luck had a part to play and […]
Understanding and Interactions
“We, men, sometimes don’t understand something because we don’t live it” ~ Jorge Rosillo, CEO and General Manager, Galapagos Ecological Airport as […]
Call me a Friend, rather than an Ally
This may sound a bit controversial, but please don’t call me an Ally. I have always felt uncomfortable with the word […]
Why doesn’t Brittany want our sympathy as fathers?
If you are struggling with appreciating this point of view, you are not alone. It is tempting and ‘well intended’ for men […]
The Parental Leave Gap – Let’s change the narrative
What if hiring managers valued periods of parental leave rather than seeing them as a gap in employment history? I was chatting […]
I wouldn’t have behaved that way
There is a difference between “I wouldn’t have behaved that way” and telling someone else “they shouldn’t have behaved that way”. I […]
7 Tips for managing the school holidays
How do you manage through the school holidays? School holidays are not a holiday. Sure there are some great times. But the […]
This episode of Bluey™ is called Gender Lens
There are many reasons to love Bluey. Even if you don’t have young kids, you should watch it. It’s helping to shape […]